Divorce
Muwatta Malik 1225
حَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ، مَوْلَى الأَسْوَدِ بْنِ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ، عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ، أَنَّ أَبَا عَمْرِو بْنَ حَفْصٍ، طَلَّقَهَا الْبَتَّةَ وَهُوَ غَائِبٌ بِالشَّامِ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا وَكِيلُهُ بِشَعِيرٍ فَسَخِطَتْهُ فَقَالَ وَاللَّهِ مَا لَكِ عَلَيْنَا مِنْ شَىْءٍ . فَجَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَ " لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْهِ نَفَقَةٌ " . وَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَعْتَدَّ فِي بَيْتِ أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ ثُمَّ قَالَ " تِلْكَ امْرَأَةٌ يَغْشَاهَا أَصْحَابِي اعْتَدِّي عِنْدَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ أَعْمَى تَضَعِينَ ثِيَابَكِ عِنْدَهُ فَإِذَا حَلَلْتِ فَآذِنِينِي " . قَالَتْ فَلَمَّا حَلَلْتُ ذَكَرْتُ لَهُ أَنَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنَ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ وَأَبَا جَهْمِ بْنَ هِشَامٍ خَطَبَانِي . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " أَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَلاَ يَضَعُ عَصَاهُ عَنْ عَاتِقِهِ وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَصُعْلُوكٌ لاَ مَالَ لَهُ انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ " . قَالَتْ فَكَرِهْتُهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ " انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ " . فَنَكَحْتُهُ فَجَعَلَ اللَّهُ فِي ذَلِكَ خَيْرًا وَاغْتَبَطْتُ بِهِ .
Translation
Abou Salama Ibn Abdul Rahman Ibn Awf a rapporté d'après Fatima Bint Qais que Abou Amr Ibn Hafs avait définitivement divorcé d'avec elle, alors qu'il était eu Syrie. Il lui envoya son agent avec une quantité d'orge, elle était répugnée et dit à l'agent "Par Allah je n'attend rien de vous", il lui répondit: «Par Allah, tu ne nous dois rien». Elle vint trouver l'Envoyé d'Allah (salallahou alayhi wa salam) r (Sur lui la grâce et la paix d'Allah) lui apprenant ce qui a eu lieu, il lui répondit: «Tu ne lui dois aucune dépense», et lui donna l'ordre de passer sa période d'attente à la maison de Oum Charik, puis lui dit: «Non, cette femme reçoit beaucoup de gens,il vaut mieux que tu passes cette période chez Abdallah Ibn Oum Mak-toum, car c'est un homme aveugle. Chez lui, tu pourras te dévoiler (changer tles habits). Une fois que tu termines ta période d'attente, apprends-le moi». Fatima continua: «Une fois que je fus à la fin de ma période d'attente je vins lui apprendre que Mou'awia IbnAbi Soufian et Abou Jahm Ibn Hicham me demandèrent en mariage». Alors l'Envoyé d'Allah (salallahou alayhi wa salam) (Sur lui la grâce et la paix d'Allah) répondit: «Quant à Abou Jahm, il a toujours sa canne sur son épaule (1) et pour Mou'awia, ce n'est qu'un homme dépourvu de tout bien. Epouse, Oussama Ibn Zaid». Elle dit:«Mais je ne m'accorde pas avec lui». Mais il reprit: «Epouse Oussama Ibn Zaid», et je me mariait avec.lui: Ainsi Allah m'accorda tant de biens et je mène avec lui une vie heureuse». (1) Il y a deux opinions différentes quand au sens de la canne sur son épaule (une c'est qu'il est sévère avec ses femmes et l'autre c'est qu'il est toujours en voyage)
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